Monthly Archives: June 2012
I am 45 years old and have probably had Parkinson’s Disease since I was 17. I have had plenty of time to study this illness and put it in perspective. I would be lying if I were to say “PD doesn’t change your life”. Sure, it changes your plans, but it doesn’t have to ruin it.
I meet hundreds of people with PD a year. Most young onset patients accept that their lives must change and that they need to find good medical care. Many of the older newly diagnosed patients tell me how they had plans and now those plans have changed.
Nothing in our lives is for certain. Whether you are healthy or not, the one certainty is that things change. Plans change. The more flexible we are, the easier it is to adapt to change. As much as we would like to believe that we are in control of our lives, circumstances outside of our control come about and we are once again forced to adapt.
Adapting does not mean you stop growing and learning. Transition is a natural process that we need not fight. Taking on this transition with a thirst for knowledge and a desire to improve oneself in mind, body, and spirit, will serve you well.
Try weeding out the stressors in your life that deter from your peace of mind. There are negative interruptions that bombard our minds, be it billboards, emails, talk radio, television news, or other distractions that upset our calm. Today, try limiting some of these outside influences and see what happens.
My 100th Posting
For this, my 100thposting on ASoftVoice.com (a soon to be book), I thank you, the reader, who with your loyalty and faithful input has inspired me to write my next 100 postings. I hope that one or more of my postings makes you smile, think, question, or laugh.
I offer you this thought to commemorate my 100thposting:
Maybe true happiness comes from what you are and not what you have.
We live in a world of faster is better: food-service, information and news, data/technology, and most everything else. In a society expecting speed and instant gratification, someone with Parkinson’s disease (PD) or any neurological disorder is at a distinct disadvantage. When time is considered money and faster is better, the individual with PD suffers because he or she may lack the ability to move into fifth gear. What the person with PD does receive is the opportunity and challenge of learning true patience and the ability to learn to live in the moment.
Part of living with PD is the act of acceptance. This does not mean that you don’t continue to seek bettering yourself and finding therapies, but it means accepting that you are different and finding comfort in your own skin. Finding the balance in one’s life is a constant challenge. When illness is involved, if not put into perspective, can compound the stress and anxiety of basic daily living.
Coming to grips with your illness may take time and effort. In many cases it may seem impossible, but it isn’t. Seek out the part of you that is able to navigate the inner workings of your mind, body, and soul (spirit) to realize that this is a challenge, but one that you can meet. We are stronger and more capable than we know. Adversity can bring out the very best in us and release strengths that we forgot we ever had. Part of accepting an illness is keeping up the necessary search for relief and bettering oneself through proper nutrition, exercise, medical care, good drug management, and willingness to explore non-invasive complimentary therapies that may potentially improve one’s condition. An open and flexible mind may serve you well in seeking answers and solutions concerning your condition.