If you are embarrassed, sad, shamed, or lack self confidence about having Parkinson’s, I am here to tell you that you don’t have the energy or time to devote to such unproductive emotions. Stay strong! You have joined a community of amazing, caring, helpful people who are there to support you and encourage you. Spending time on activities that take you away from being your best will only deplete you more. Choosing to be positive and to be your very best can be a reality and not a mushy platitude!
It is up to you to make the first move. Admitting and succumbing to the realization that you need help is not weakness but new found strength. Helping oneself to learn about how others are surviving and thriving benefits all involved. This generous group of people with Parkinson’s and care partners are ready and willing to share their experiences of what has worked and what needs improving. There are tomes of great advice, educational videos, supportive medical experts, and organizations with helpful support groups and exercise programs! Be aware that your improvement and care all begins with your passion, diligence, and commitment to getting better.
I won’t say that being thrust into the world of Parkinson’s is easy and nor is it your first thought to just accept it and move forward. I had some dark days until I realized that my body, mind, and spirit were in jeopardy. My being is my responsibility. There is plenty of help out there, but you are your greatest resource. Now, build your team!
Parkinson’s is an illness that you do not fight, but work with, work around, and find solutions that work for you. In other words, Parkinson’s takes work! I, like you, am on a constant and continuous hunt for wellness or at the very least, some therapy, drug, exercise, or device to improve my condition. I wish you well!
AsoftVoice.com Recognized as one of the Best Blogs on Parkinson’s Disease for the 4th Year in a Row!
I am so grateful and honored to announce that for the fourth year in a row Asoftvoice.com has been chosen by Healthline.com as one of the best blogs on Parkinson’s! I am elated to be picked with so many outstanding bloggers and such exceptional websites that I respect so highly! I congratulate all of my friends and fellow bloggers who also received this award!
Thanks to Healthline.com for including AsoftVoice.com as one of their 2018 Best Blogs Parkinson’s Disease and everyone who reads this blog! I hope that I can provide content that you will find to be interesting, educational, and helpful! Thank You!
On this, the 8th Mother’s Day without her, I lit a candle and enjoyed her favorite flower in her memory! She encouraged my blogging, my writing, and ultimately my books! I am so grateful for her support!
When I was first diagnosed, the neurologist in 1991, coldly and in a matter of fact tone informed me that I had “a reptilian stare”! I don’t know if this is an official piece of medical terminology or the vernacular, but I most assuredly must express my thoughts of using such a crude comparison.
Doctors can be outstanding resources for data gathering and possible new treatments, but often fizzle when it comes to bedside manner, hand-holding, support, thinking outside the box, or just sharing compassion. I know that there are some of them out there and I hope that your doctor or doctors are of the compassionate qualification—but if he or she is not, what do you do?
Here lies the $64,000 question (old reference-sorry), of asking what it is that you expect to receive from your physician and how it is delivered?
Is it so difficult to reach your doctor that you can’t get a 24-hour response? Any response?
Navigating the labyrinth-like phone system of most medical providers is a test of resilience and sheer willpower. I think that it might just be an exercise to see just how committed their patients are to the practice. I would compare calling doctors’ offices a close comparison to my childhood game playing of that ever so frustrating, never-ending game of Chutes and Ladders—almost as annoying as pick up sticks. Ahhhhhhhhh, the good old days.
Some doctors’ offices think that they have joined the 21st century by installing these “portals” that are misnamed, closer to a black hole, are often unread on a timely basis, and overly buggy or confusing to maneuver around—other than my issues, they are great!
I don’t have any insight into defying the complexities of the phone systems or portal projections, but you might express your frustrations to your doctor and any staff who will listen. Be sure and share the good stuff with your doctor’s office as well, when this might happen.
This is my first real attempt at an inspirational film. I hope you enjoy it and share it.
I hope that you find this thought-provoking and calming! These are some of my many original photos mixed in with some thoughts. You may have to watch more than once to read everything. Thanks!
In the past week, I mentioned the loss of Toys R US, which is a sad memory for all of us who loved our toy stores. The toy store, while an important piece of our past, isn’t nearly as crucial as the loss of Theoretical Physicist, Stephen Hawking.
Stephen Hawking besides being an amazing scientist and one of the greatest visionaries of our time, was a handicapped man who far exceeded his outwardly apparent limitations. Through Hawking’s work in space and time, he gained respect and accolades for his contribution to science, the world, but especially to those of us living with neurological challenges.
Hawking was known for his brilliance but also for his wit and incredible sense of humor. When you looked at Professor Stephen Hawking, his wheelchair and voice communicator became a part of his being. What Hawking wrote and thought has left an impact far louder and more important than his ALS. We looked beyond what most would label as a disability. Hawking lived far longer than ever expected, made a huge contribution to science, and proved that one can truly overcome the adversity of illness.
As a writer, inventor, author, and someone with Parkinson’s disease for over 30 years, I always admired Stephen Hawking. Not until his passing, did I really understand the dignity and awareness that he projected for all of us dealing with chronic health conditions. He showed a strength and tenacity that is an inspiration that I will never forget.
The World Weeps for Geoffrey—A Part of our childhood has gone!